Choking can be a powerful and erogenous experience. Many couples need variety to keep their sex life spicy and choking can be an exciting new sexual twist.
But before choking can be done safely, both partners must communicate what they’re looking for. What type of choking, at what point during penetration and oral play, and if it will be closer to climax.
Women often enjoy choking during sex because it is arousing. It’s the feeling of being choked by another dominant person, and the sensation of them gripping a fragile part of your body that is normally held tight, that can be extremely exhilarating. This can be especially true when mixed with rough sex.
Choking during sex can also be quite dangerous. If a person isn’t trained in how to do it properly, they can accidentally choke someone so hard that they lose oxygen and pass out. This can be very painful, and it’s definitely not a kink that all people will find pleasurable.
Often, when people choke during sex, they’re not thinking about the danger that can be involved. Many of the women Herbenick interviewed for her study described choking that was not done with proper skill and care, or without the person’s consent. The choking was frequently initiated without conversation, or while the woman was drunk or high. It was also done without learning technical skills that could help reduce risk and call for help if needed.
Before any choking or breath play can take place, both partners need to talk about their personal preferences and boundaries. They should determine if they want a playful, gentle touch, or something more dominant and scary, and agree on a safe word in case things go wrong.
It’s a Rush of Danger
Women who like to be choked often enjoy feeling a rush of danger. This is especially true when it is combined with rough sex. The combination of the two can be very sexually exhilarating and intoxicating. This can also increase the intensity of their orgasm.
One of the reasons why women like to be choked is that it can remind them of a rape fantasy. This is a common fantasy for women who love kinky activities and is often included in hardcore pornography. However, it is important to note that choking someone during sex is not a good idea and can cause serious harm or even death. The neck area is very fragile and lack of oxygen can lead to a variety of health problems including stroke, heart attack, brain damage, incontinence, and speech paralysis.
Whether it is for fun or as a kink, choking a woman during sex should be done carefully and with the right training. There are workshops and classes available that teach how to choke someone safely. It is also a good idea to discuss boundaries and have an agreed-upon safe word or safe gesture in case things get out of hand.
Many people have heard horror stories about being choked by a partner during sex and may be afraid of it. Fortunately, it is very rare for a person to be seriously hurt or killed by being choked during sex.
It’s a Turn On
Many people enjoy choking as part of kink play because it makes them feel powerful and dominant. It can also create a power dynamic where one partner gives control to the other and the other takes on a submissive role. It is important to remember that choking can lead to oxygen deprivation. While it is arousing, it can also make your decision-making abilities go out the window, and you may not be able to use your safe word .
If you are interested in choking, start slowly to learn how to do it safely. Many BDSM groups and fetish stores offer classes on choking that are very safe. Start with light pressure, and work your way up. If you don’t like it, it is OK to stop and let your partner know that.
The neck is a very erogenous area and many people like to choke it in different positions. Teaspooning is an awesome position for choking, as it can be very intimate and sweet. Many women like to choke themselves as well, and this can be a great way to intensify sexual pleasure. Adding kissing and lightly biting the neck can add to the intensity of this kink play.
It’s a shame that there are men out there who don’t respect their partners’ boundaries and think they can choke women during sex. They are not only violating their partners’ rights but they are hurting them. They are not horny because of 50 Shades of Grey, they are sadists who want to dominate and control women.
It’s a Pleasure
One of the main reasons why women like being choked during sex is because it feels incredibly sensual and intimate. It can be a very intimate and sexual experience, especially when it’s done in a spooning position, where the woman’s back is to her partner. This allows him to get very close to her neck, which is an erogenous area. If he also mixes it with kissing, it can intensify the pleasure and intensity of the experience.
However, there is a fine line between pleasure and pain, and it can be difficult to determine when choking becomes too much of a turn off. If it’s done too often or is too hard, it can cause injury and even permanent damage. And if it’s done without proper training or knowledge, it can cause asphyxiation. So, if you’re going to use this technique, make sure that you take the time to learn how to do it properly so that your partner doesn’t get injured or pass out.
Many people have a fetish for choking, but it’s important to separate your pleasure from that of your partner. A lot of people choke women during sex without their consent, which can be dangerous for both of them. Some of these people aren’t consciously aware that they’re choking their partners, which can lead to a lot of resentment and anger on the part of the woman.